What to say when talking about the Birds and the bees?

My daughter is at that age and I'm clueless as to how to explain it. Any Suggestions?What to say when talking about the Birds and the bees?
tell your daughter the truth, you don't have to be explict just tell her what you would've wantedd to hear when you were her age. i know it sounds hard , but kids just want to know the truth. dont be embarising and dont make her feel uncomfartable.








P.S. im pretty sure she already knows about ';the birds and the bees';What to say when talking about the Birds and the bees?
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You don't have to go into details about sex, just say what you are comfortable with that is understandable to your child. Don't under any circumstances avoid the talk, my parents did not think I needed to know what sex was, and I was very sheltered which caused me to lose my virginity at the age of 14 because at the time I didn't even know I was having sex, because I did not know how it worked. Don't give too many details that will push your child's curiousity in the direction of having sex, just let them know that's it's a special, sacred thing that two married people share. Tell her that if she ever feels like she is ready for sex or has been put in a situation where she has been asked to have sex that she can always come talk to you about it, and hopefully she will feel comfortable talking to you about it. The more aware she is of the situation and your feelings on it, are more likely to guide her in the direction you approve of. Children do not like disappointing there parents, as long as they feel like they can be close to you. The harder you are on her about the subject the more rebellious and likely to do it she will be good luck!
If you have a pc at home probably she knows BUT leave her alone plz dont embaress her plz plz!


If shes 9+ she might knows.


Even if shes -9 then dont tell her its gross.


School teaches.


Ive learned from myself.No,no, i didnt have a pc i just knew, its humanity like breathing.








PS.Masturbating is healthy!


PS.2.Dont be mad at her!
Maybe you can ask her what she knows already and then go from there. I found this website kinda helpful. There are also many really good childrens books that can help you to begin the conversation.





Here are some resources


http://www.birdsandbeesandkids.com/





I also found this website helpful:


http://www.talkingwithkids.org/sex.html
I suggest that you go to the book store,they have several books out there that make things a lot easier on parents today.There geared for kid's.Hope this helps.
how old is she?
oh yes all i remember about my mother talking to me is that she said, if you need bc, ill get it. dont have sex youll get an std. needless to say, that talk was useless. you need to make sure that your daughter knows that it is okay to talk about the subject with you therefor, dont make it akward or let her know it makes you feel akward. things such as sex is a normal adult activity. and say things such as, there are several risks people take when having unprotected sex. now if her questions are about HOW do people have sex, this gets more complicated. remember, you still have to make sure she will keep going to you for advice with this subject later and life so you have to seem comfortable with your answer. you dont have to tell her a males penis is inserted into a vagina.. because that would make you and her uncomfortable! i would tell her when a male and a female get married and fall in love, they have sex to make babies. answer all her questions honestly and make her feel comfortable!